"THERE IS BUT...LITTLE SCRUPLE OF SEPARATING FAMILIES"
Lewis Clarke, the son of a Scottish weaver and a slave mother, was born in
Kentucky in 1815. Despite an agreement that she was to be freed upon her
husband's death, Clarke's mother and her nine children remained in slavery.
After he learned that he was going to be sold in New Orleans, Clarke
successfully fled through Ohio across Lake Erie to Canada in 1841. In an
account of his life published in 1846, he provided answers to questions he was
frequently asked about the impact of slavery upon slave families.
[Question] Are families often separated? How many such cases have you
never knew a whole family to live together till all were grown up in my life.
There is almost always, in every family, some one or more keen and bright, or
else sullen and stubborn slave, whose influence they are afraid of one the
rest of the family, and such a one must take a walking ticket to the south.
There are other causes of separation. The death of a large owner is the
occasion usually of many families being broken up. Bankruptcy is another
cause of separation, and the hard-
of a majority of slave-
another and a more fruitful cause than either or all the rest. Generally
there is but little more scruple about separating families than there is with
a man who keeps sheep in selling off the lambs in the fall. On one plantation
where I lived, there was an old slave named Paris. He was from fifty to sixty
years old, and a very honest and apparently pious slave. A slave-
came along one day, to gather hands for the south. The old master ordered the
waiter or coachman to take Paris into the back room pluck out all his gray
hairs, rub his face with a greasy towel, and then had him brought forward and
sold for a young man. His wife consented to go with him, upon a promise from
the trader that they should be sold together, with their youngest child, which
she carried in her arms. They left two behind them, who were only from four
to six or eight years of age. The speculator collected his drove, started for
the market, and, before he left the state, he sold that infant child to pay
one of his tavern bills, and took the balance in cash....
[Question] Have you ever known a slave mother to kill her own children?
[Answer] There was a slave mother near where I lived, who took her child into
the cellar and killed it. She did it to prevent being separated from her
child. Another slave mother took her three children and threw them into a
well, and then jumped in with them, and they were all drowned. Other
instances I have frequently heard of. At the death of many and many a slave
child, I have seen the two feelings struggling in the bosom of a mother-
that it was beyond the reach of the slave monsters, and the natural grief of a
mother over her child. In the presence of the master, grief seems to
predominate; when away from them, they rejoice that there is one whom the slave-
will never torment.
Source: Interesting Memoirs and Documents Relating to American Slavery, and
the Glorious Struggle Now Making for Complete Emancipation (London, 1846).